Sunday, September 15, 2013

Yes, No, Not Yet

I've been told that God has 3 answers to all requests,  "Yes, no and not yet". If you prayed and were blessed with a child,  then it's safe to say that your answer was the first one. But if you are reading this, then you most likely haven't and then His answer is one of the other two. "Not yet" is not so bad, it just requires lots of patience and lots of faith. But "no" is the one we don't ever want to hear. No one wants to ask for something, especially a child, and hear "no" for an answer.  However, I have good news. Even if His answer is "no", God's plan for you is better  than anything you can come up with for yourself. So His answer is not "no", its really "no, because I have something better". Have faith that whichever answer you get it is the best plan He has for you. Jesus said "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: (Matthew 7:7 KJVA)". Boy have I asked! I've been asking everyday for the past 2 years. Recently, I began to wonder if this daily request would increase my chances of getting pregnant. Would I be able to persuade God's decision if I prayed and asked daily? Is it really necessary to ask everyday? Or is God up there thinking "Alright already...you sound like a broken record!" So, I decided I was no longer going to pray for a baby, I was instead going to pray for other things and other people. I'm ashamed to say that I got tired of praying and had temporarily lost my faith. Two days later after Sunday mass, we said hi to the priest and he asked my husband about our children. My husband quickly corrected him, like we do anytime anyone asks if we have kids, and told him that we have been trying. Having said that, the priest said a prayer for us to conceive. I was surprised by this because we haven't really had any other interaction with him and he doesn't know how long we had been trying for or even that it's a concern for us. So why would he immediately assume we needed a prayer? Well, I quickly realized that this was God's way of telling me to not stop praying, and that if I do, He will get other people to do it for me. So needless to say, I went back to asking Him for a baby daily. Before this happened, I wasn't confident that my prayers were being effective or heard, but He clearly showed me that they are.  I don't know why He needs us to keep asking but He showed me that He does. So continue to ask daily and do not doubt that you are being heard. 

Do you think God is listening to your prayers? Please share in the comments below, I would love to know that there are people trying to conceive reading my blog.

God bless!

5 comments:

  1. I know exactly what you mean!!!
    I don't think He is listening... I know. I have been TTC for almost 3 years. I'm finally in a good place, emotionally. My marriage has been strengthened beyond belief. I truly think that was God's plan all along. Now we are finally as Close as we've ever been to conceiving... with the help of a lot of prayer (and quite a bit of science too)

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    1. He is listening, He is also crying beside you and holding your hand through your struggle. It will be really good soon! Have faith. Trust in Him.

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  2. I know He hears me each and every time. I know He comforts me each time the answer is no, and I know He has a better plan in mind for someday! It is super hard, though!

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  3. I been trying for years and nothing and this time I have miss my period and it driving me crazy I have been down this road before I have lost my faith in God I been praying everyday I think he is not listening to me I'm sad

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    1. Oh no! I'm sorry. Please don't think that. He does listen and He hurts with you. I pray you find your faith again and that you get peace while you wait. Don't give up! Your baby is coming. Look at this website you might find more encouragement www.IAMFRUITFUL.org

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